Wow. Yesterday was pretty exciting and quite a whirlwind. It was exciting to share the moment with family. I just think finding out the sex of the child is such a gift that I want it to feel special.
Since we didn't find out what we were having the first time around, everyone wonders how now compares to then. Well to me, it just didn't feel that different. It was just Bob and I in the delivery room when Calan was born and this time it was just Bob and I at the ultrasound. Last time, I was so convinced it was a boy, I'd forgotten that I didn't actually know. This time, I completely felt like this was a girl, so no real surprise there. Last time, we ended up telling most of our family over the phone before they got to the hospital (I had a very quick labor), and this time, I told a lot of my family on the phone, but was able to tell Bob's family in person.
So, what are we going to do next time around? Not sure. I am not sure what I am expecting, but neither time did "it" happen. Each time, I think I am hoping for this overwhelming emotional response, but I have to admit to myself that, that is just not me.
Both times, I was really happy that we found out when we did. I loved the anticipation of the first pregnancy. I loved the excitement that surrounded not knowing. Plus, I was not bombarded with all boy stuff. We got a lot of gender neutral items for our future children. This time, I am happy that we know that it is girl. I am happy that we will be able to organize a few things before she gets here.
Not sure what Bob and I will feel like doing next time, but I have a feeling that we will wait again. That is just my gut feeling, but let's be honest, a pregnant lady can change her mind at anytime.
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